What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 04:09
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Why do older people have a hard time using technology?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Where did Noah build the Ark? Was it in a desert or near water?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
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6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Why do black people prefer thick, curvy women?
What is your favorite position? Why?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
29- How superstitious are you?
Why do people who were very kind and loving once become cold-hearted?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
What are some tips for braiding a woman's hair on a date?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Why are women attracted to ugly guys?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
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14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
If you win, what will you make them do?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Family Relation Age Play
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
39~ What are your love languages?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Nothing too Serious
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Any that are a turn off?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
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23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Any that are a turn off?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Would you read them together?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Please share Did you stop?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
*** Questions About Me ***
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
*** Random Questions ***
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
52~ What are your hobbies?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
The Ice Breaker Questions
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
If yes, what?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
How old are you? Male or Female?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?